The Best Relationship Advice You Can Get as a Woman On How to Grow Your Relationship
When we look at the problems men and women have in their relationships with each other, it is almost funny to see what differences between the way they think and act is causing all these problems. I say it is funny because if each gender knows the reason behind the actions of the other gender, a lot of these problems will be resolved. But we’re not living in such a simple world and it is our job to learn about each gender and its differences. For example, one of the main differences between men and women is that men do not take things personal and try not to get emotional about stuff, on the other hand, women take a lot of things personal and get very emotional quickly. This fact can make men seem very cold in the eyes of women and women seem too emotional and illogical in the eyes of men.
Now let’s talk about some of the most important relationship advice you can get as a woman:
1. Do not take things personally
When a man says something, what he says is usually exactly what he means, no less no more. So don’t try to read through their conversations and add something to it. This will be resulted in you overthinking about the conversation or adding some meaning to it which doesn’t really exist. When a man says something, he doesn’t try to bounce around a lot to make it softer or more pleasing to the ears, he just says it, we’re not saying he doesn’t care about you and it’s no different for him if what he says hurts your feelings, we’re just saying what you hear is what you get. Try to understand what your man means by what he says and don’t add anything to it.
2. Don’t be clingy or possessive
We get it, when you love someone, you like them to spend time with you as much as possible, but it doesn’t mean your man cannot have some time dedicated to himself. Everyone should feel the freedom they deserve in their relationships, so please do not be clingy towards your man keeping asking him multiple times what he’s doing during the day. Calling him too many times can be a pain in the ass for him as well. If he loves you, he will be thinking about you during the day a lot, you don’t need to make sure of every single time of it. The bottom line is he’s a free man and so are you, so treat him the way you like to be treated when it comes to having room to breathe.
3. Do not expect him to be able to read your mind
This one is very funny when we hear a lot of men talk about it, we as women expect men to be mind readers and whenever we are upset with them and drop a little hints about it, we think they should get it completely and look for solutions. Men don’t work like that, they need us to be very clear about how we are feeling and show very clear signs, not some small ones. So expecting your man to understand your upsetness because you’ve been quiet for a short time or you’re not talking to him as friendly as you always do is not enough for him to understand something is seriously wrong here, you either need to be frank with him and tell him exactly how you feel or you need to make the signs of your upsetness much clearer.
4. Do not try to make him agree with you on every single thing
Everyone likes to find agreeable people with what they say, but it usually does not work like that. So if you’re in a relationship, please do not try to convince your man that you are always right, isn’t it hard for you to accept someone else’s opposite opinion to yours? Well, it is just as difficult for him to accept yours as well. No one likes to be told they are all wrong all the time, this is doubly true fom men because they hate it even more than we do. So do yourself a favor and respect his different opinion about things and try to live with that.